The thought of a perfect marriage seems to be perceived as mirage by billions of people around the world but interestingly millions of people are also enjoying this natural phenomenon. A condition I called the First Heaven (Perfect Marriage). People are getting marriage wrong because they are getting into Marriage for a lot of wrong reasons. To be able to understand my point of view lets list some of the possible reasons why some people enter into marriage.

(A) Fame, financial gains, outward beauty, religious beliefs, family pressures, educational pursuit, pregnancy, Sexual fantasy, financial security, Prestige, Political advantage, inheritance, Ambition, nationalization, family betrothal, manipulated, fear, business advantage, to please family, to strengthen family and political ties,  money, children (Boy Child, Girl Child) etc.

(B)   Love, Harmonious companionship,Happiness, peace, loving companionship, motherhood, fatherhood, appreciated and cherished, sexual pleasure, for who he/she is
deep sense of oneness, etc

Any marriage that its foundation is built on any of the reasons on the the A list is bound to experience problem and eventually crash. the reasons is that marriage is a free gift of God and a legitimate vehicle for the population of the earth. If God had made marriage to be a materially expensive adventure he would have by Himself limit the process of populating the earth which He so much desire ( We can attest to this by the perfection of designs all around us). without mankind earth is a complete wasteland and marriage have sustained the existence of human race till date. The perfect things that nature has put on earth for the sustainability of Mankind are free eg. Life, Circle of the rain, Gravitational Force, The atmosphere, Earths shield, Air, Sun, Cloud, Water, the human body, including marriage. These phenomenon that makes life exist on earth are priceless and all where designed for one purpose The existence of life. If all these where created to sustain life, what about the means by which the life will be created? Don't you think it will be far more cheaper and easier to maintain. If all these phenomena have laws that makes them workable, don't you think that which it was created for should also have laws?  TO BE CTN Part2